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    所谓 幸•福

     
        幸,吉而免凶也。
        福,佑也。
     
        所谓幸福,字面理解就是“吉祥如意,无灾无险,有神灵庇佑”之类的吧。
     
        碰到久未谋面但交情一如既往铁的朋友,没想到MS和睦幸福的一家人背后却波澜起伏。。。
     
        欺骗与隐瞒,背叛与忠实。
     
        看似“花心”的他 V.S. 看似温和朴实的她
     
        我从来都不认为如果一个家庭成员有了外遇就单只是他一个人的问题或者错误,老实说,应该与每个家庭成员都有关系。
     
        他从你这里得不到的,要么忍受,要么分开,要么寻求外援。
     
        内心的孤独从来与外在无关,即使有正常的工作,有长辈,有妻子(丈夫),有可爱的孩子。
     
        你无法给到他、满足他的,他去追求自己的“幸福”,有什么错??
     
        也许错在不该让你发现吧。。。他不是并无异常的仍旧如故的履行着作为妻子、母亲的职责吗。。。
     
        太可笑了,太可笑了,围城内的生活果然精彩,也果然毫无新意。
     

     
        我不知道如何开解他,抑或规劝他,我甚至张开了嘴却说不出任何话,只能诺诺。
     
        一切的文字在此时都显得苍白而虚伪。
     
        但心里却非常难过,难过呀。
     
        最后,我只能故作轻松地问他:你就打算这样。。。凑合过下去?
     
        朋友笑笑,也故作洒脱的回道:就这样。。。幸福的过下去吧。。。
     

     
        那么,好吧,大家都这样,幸福的,过下去吧。。。
     
     

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    Sheng Gengwrote:
    凑合难道也会是一种幸福。。。
    还是不要试图自己说服自己了吧。。。
    Oct. 25
    JING RAOwrote:
    同意lin.
    Oct. 23
    Shuminwrote:
    不爱了就分开。
    为什么要凑合?
    人生苦短,不要委屈自己。
    Oct. 21
    俊 刘wrote:
    不错的电视剧的素材
    Oct. 20
    lin wuwrote:
    但也许,多年以后的他,会庆幸自己当年的凑合的幸福。。。
    Oct. 19

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